While the system of having my mother-in-law live with us is difficult the reality of the situation is that every one of us may have no choice. Our choices in beach apartment care are becoming more limited as her mental faculties are slipping farther in addition to farther away. She is childlike on most days in addition to makes everyday choices that can be dangerous. The people I was with and I have looked into the option of having a beach apartment health aide stay with her during the thirds while every one of us are at work however she seems miserable when a stranger is in the house. The people I was with and I can’t risk her hurting herself or others either. The people I was with and I need to make some adjustments to our beach apartment to make this current arrangement work. The area that every one of us will be using as an apartment for her was never intended as a space for someone to live so every one of us need to add a bathroom, replace the space with it’s own heating in addition to cooling, in addition to make sure that each exit has an alarmed lock so every one of us assume if she is leaving unattended, by making this safe space every one of us can hire someone for minimum care such as meal prep in addition to socialization instead of having a higher level of full on care. If she feels that the person is basically visiting her in addition to having a meal with her she will be less likely to be aggressive! She would hopefully view them as a acquaintance instead of a caregiver. The people I was with and I diagnosed into the options of a separate heating in addition to cooling component in addition to every one of us found that every one of us can have a mini break component installed that can be controlled by our phones. My mother-in-law would not have the ability to adjust the temperature on her own so the space would not be too hot or too cold at any given time. I am sure that this will be the best option for all of us when it is all done.